Thursday, 4 August 2011

THE SELECTION OF GIFT ARTICLE

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           The meaning of gift is very simple and is used to give some thing to some one. The gift like founten pen is used generally to student as he/she gets good marks in his/her study, A doll is gifted to small children as he/she is having his/her birthday .while giving  and taking the gift one has to look after the physchological manner he/she gives/takes, the gift.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Tin agers are using mostly the gift article  rose as their feelings of love. And mostly tin agers are using the rose on valentine day as their lovers may not feel bed and they may not spoil relation with  each other.                                                                                                                                                                                             Selection of gift articles by the friends and relatives during the marriages are so many in number that one can not imagine that much numbers of variety of gifts to bride and grooms are given and taken.                                                                                                                                                                                                                              The same thing happens during the festival like raksha bandhan . The sister is binding a thread to his brother with a great pray that her brother may live long. Similarly the brother is also giving some gift to his sister with a pray that the ulmighty may give him the great strength to save his sister                                          Whenever we visit a temple we are giving some gifts to God like money, gold, silver ornaments, diamond ornaments etc. all this are the typical gifts. And their selections depends upon our feelings, faith, financial facilities. Etc.   But                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                The  gift  from parents  to their    daughter is entirely different and the selection of gift is entirely different and depends on the circumstances in which the parents are giving gift. They are nurrishing their daughter up to her marriage, they are giving education, without any reward,  every now and then their daughter comes father’s house she is getting gifts in cash or kind .when parents are visiting the daughter’s house they are giving some gift to their daughter in cash or kind. During any festival in their daughter’s house the parents are giving gifts in cash or kind. During marriage  they are giving entire thing which their daughter demands as gifts like sari, blouse, ornaments, cupboards, dressing table etc. etc. including chapples slippers makeup ornaments etc. etc.  this type of gifts are the noted gifts say listed gifts  while the daughter and parents are living. But the unlisted gifts from parents to their died daughter is very pitiable and the parents are giving gifts behing their daughter’s death as per hindu rules and regulations .during the death ceremony of their daughter the gifts are given from the parents. This is not enough , while any festival like marriage of their daughter’s son the parents are giving gifts in cash or kind.  

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